Online Dating

Eight years ago, my father and his girlfriend met in an AOL chat room. Back then, meeting someone romantically in a chat room was not considered “kosher”. Today, however, there are hundreds of websites devoted to meeting your significant other, including a healthy handful that cater to the Jewish world of dating. I am proud to say I am a member of one such website.
Just like finding a job is a full-time job, so is Jewish online dating. One could easily get lost in the myriad of people who are apparently available. So what makes anyone stop and think, um, he looks interesting? First off is the picture. Sorry to say, but you need an attractive punim. Some words of advice for my potential future husband- Have it be a picture that is of just you, looking nice, and not goofing off with your buddies. Some pictures that make men more attractive are those that include a dog (but not a fluff dog) and maybe a niece or a nephew (just let me know it is not a daughter or son).
Your screen name is very important. It describes you! “OnenightinBoston”
makes you seem like a player. And “BostonJewishSingle” is not creative at all! Once those are taken care of, your zodiac sign can be an important piece of information. In fact, according to my research, most women will not consider you if you do not believe in the ancient predictions of the zodiac.
Once you have found someone who interests you, there are many decisions to be made. Do you send a message, flirt, Instant Message, send an ecard, or move him to your “hot list”? If you really think you and this person will click, an email or IM is recommended. If you only think this person is half way interesting, however, then maybe a flirt is sufficient.
Last night, I sent a message to an interesting fellow and it read: “Hey, I saw that you traveled to New Zealand, so have I and I loved it. Where did you travel in NZ?” I always end with a question so they have to respond. The world of online dating is fascinating and I recommend to get out there and click!